Dual income is something that should not be underestimated. When getting into a relationship, it is more than just companionship and butterflies in your stomach. Don't partner up with, date or marry a lazy mooch. You will never get anywhere. However, teamwork can really improve your lot in life, if your partner has the same mindset.
I’ve heard many people say that they could never move to the South because of low wages. While it is true that wages are lower in some states, the fact of the matter is that you can live a better lifestyle with those lower wages.
The lack of shared values all surrounds the concept of freedom and individual rights. This is a shared value that most democracies can use to align towards a more peaceful world. The CCP does not share this value, they do not believe that your individual rights usurp the political moral authority the party provides.